Tuesday, October 1, 2019

Trial of Encouragement


Wherefore I desire that ye faint not at my tribulations for you, which is your glory.” (Eph 3:13 AV)

Going through hard times is part and parcel of service in ministry.  It is important the servant of God share his trials while in the service of the King, but in such a way these trials do not become a source of discouragement on those whom his is trying to minister the truth of who God is and what God can do.  What is interesting is Paul’s time in Ephesus was brief.  While he was there, he suffered persecution and almost went to trial.  This church grew and matured rapidly to the point they could survive and thrive without the present leadership of the Apostle.  Upon their request, he left Ephesus for the time being.  For his own safety, they asked that he journey on and return as some later date.  Paul’s desire here, obviously written after the event described above, is they would not allow the problems of the missionary to keep them from fighting the good fight.  The affect our afflictions have on those who depend upon our faith is up to us.
My mother is a great example.  She was a type II diabetic that required both types of insulin.  She was then diagnosed with non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma.  This us what eventually took his life.  I remember going to see her at one of her treatments.  It was just a few months before she passed.  We had a great visit.  There she sat, with a tube of chemo emptying into her veins.  Never did we discuss her situation.  She wouldn’t have it.  We talked about family.  She wanted to know how my family was doing.  We reminisced about days of old.  Camping adventures, the holidays, living in our home town, etc.  We laughed at things we as kids did which she never knew we did.  Like sabotaging a Christmas tree.  Or running a fun house business in the basement for our neighborhood.  Of getting sick on a pack of her cigarettes in the tree fort one afternoon.  One story after another brought smiles and laughter.  After those two or three hours of fellowship, we forgot why she was there to begin with.  That was my mother.  Never a complaint.  When she had back surgery, we all pitched in.  But she never complained.  When there was one rocky patch and my mom was pushed to great concern for our family, we knew something bad might happen, but she relieved our fears even though she was still filled with doubt and fear.
 As those who are called to help others in their trials, it is ok to share our own.  However, not to the point that it causes others to faint.  Share all you like.  Ask for prayer.  But do so in a way that encourages others.  God is still God.  No matter how deep the water is, God is still God.  He hasn’t lost a step.  He is not unaware of our trouble.  He has it all under control.  In sharing our troubles, we must balance it out with our faith.  God has this!  He really does.  If we do not share how able and good God is, not only will we go down, but we will drag others down with us.  This was Paul’s concern.  His trouble had a purpose.  God was going to see him through it and it would result in the strengthening of a church.  This is how we need to treat our troubles.  As an opportunity to positively effect the lives of others.

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