“The merciful man doeth good to his own soul: but [he that is] cruel troubleth his own flesh.” (Pr 11:17 AV)
I like how Adam Clarke defines merciful. He defines it as a gracious disposition. Somehow, we think that having a critical mind and a gracious spirit are not possible. We think they are diametrically opposed. They can be if we allow our critical mind to affect our spirit. It is right and proper to ask questions and discover the truth. It is ok to question much in search of truth. However, if we are not careful, the mind that is critical can also produce a spirit that is soured. When it comes to people, this is especially important. The implication of the king is that if we are merciful to others, it does wonders for the soul and spirit. It is one thing to discern the actions and character of others. It is entirely something different to allow opinions of facts to change our love for them. They are people, just like us. They have hurts and concerns much like we do. We have character flaws, sins, and downright objectionable personalities just like everyone else. We are no different. Having eyes and a heart of mercy not only helps those upon whom we show mercy, but it also helps us deep down inside.
In a few short weeks, many will be watching holiday movies. One of the favorites of the current generation is The Grinch. It follows a being who was once soured by the cruel actions of his middle school fellow students. They mocked him tirelessly for being different. This led to his escape into a mountain cave and the life of a recluse. Many years later, a young girl invited him to a town-wide annual Christmas celebration. It went as expected. They mocked, as they did many years ago. He went on a tirade and stole their Christmas. Everything was gone. What changed this creature's heart was the cry of the little girl who invited him in the first place. The lines the Grinch speaks when he hears the cries for help of his little friend are classic. One of them is “I feel all warm and toasty inside”. All those years he held on to bitterness and envy. All those years kept him closed up in a cave. All those years brought misery and loneliness. But he never knew how hardened he truly was. Not unto the felt and exercised mercy did he begin to live again. Mercy did much good to his soul.
Mercy is not an easy exercise. At least at first. What I have noticed is that those who are merciful are merciful as a pattern of life. They were not born that way. They chose to live that way. It took time. It took a discipline of the mind and heart. Once it became a pattern, it became instinctual. What I have also noticed it the more merciful, compassionate, and understanding a person is, the happier they tend to be. This is to what Solomon is referring. He is trying to tell us that living a life of mercy toward others will not only benefit others, it will also benefit our own souls. The kinder we are to all around us, the greater the glow and warmth in our own hearts. Mercy takes a commitment. Mercy takes an investment. Mercy means the welfare of others is more important than our own. Mercy is a well of life to those who live by it. Solomon knew of what he spoke. Now, he is trying to teach his children that kindness and mercy do the soul some good.