Sunday, January 24, 2021

The Only Dumb Question is the One You Don't Ask

Wisdom is too high for a fool: he openeth not his mouth in the gate.” (Pr 24:7 AV)

 

The gate was the place men gathered to converse and debate.  It was like the local water cooler.  In the movie Fiddler On The Roof, one of the opening scenes is when the milkman brings his cart into the village.  All the townsmen are coming for their milk and cheese. In the process, they remain gathered and debate back and forth.  Their bantering is not rude or disrespectful, it is merely a way to gather more information or formulate what truth truly is.  In the above proverb, this practice is in mind.  However, the fool, because of his foolishness, does not see wisdom as something he desires or can understand.  So, he avoids public discourse because he thinks those things of which others speak are above his abilities or desires.  One thing to bear in mind, the book of Proverbs constantly compares wisdom and foolishness.  However, there are varying degrees of both.  The description of the fool is often seen as a derogatory thing.  However, foolishness is natural for the sinner.  It is how we are born.  It is our nature.  Being that there are degrees of foolishness, the above observation could simply be natural foolishness rather than a deliberate one.  In other words, the fool assumes present wisdom will always be out of his reach so he doesn’t bother to sit and learn.

As a child, my father required us to take music lessons which he taught.  He started us out on the piano and then we went to an instrument of our choosing.  I chose the guitar.  As a child, you really are not falling in love with practice and lessons.  We would rather be outside having mud wars with our brothers or running to the park.  Or priding our bikes.  Who wants to sit and practice for half-an-hour a day when there were far more fun things to do.  This made for difficult lessons to learn.  Who cares about chords or plucking patterns?  There we sat.  My father would chasten us for making chords the wrong way.  He would go over the lesson for the day.  More and more we would learn. Much to our dismay.  What I learned years later was I had a large hole that was missing. Key structure and construction of chords were an important part.  When friends of mine showed me the pattern, I called my dad and asked him why he never taught this to me.  Because I really didn’t care to learn.  That was his response.  The fool does not open his mouth to gain more wisdom because he thinks it is too high for him to understand.  However, if he were to simply apply himself and give himself more time, he can get it.

We tend to throw up our hands when faced with something we think we will never understand.  We may never be a rocket scientist, however, the basic principles of it can be understood to avoid being hit by one.  This is the understanding above.  Throwing up our hands in an attempt to understand something when we do not think we can is a foolish thing.  I have three sons.  When it comes to asking questions in the classroom, two of them couldn’t be different.  One was as silent as a church mouse.  The other asked questions non-stop.  The first really didn’t need to ask.  He could figure it out on his own.  The other was a bit slower but just as intelligent.  He simply needed to verbally work out.  He was not a fool.  He never looked at something as impossible to understand.  He learned that asking questions and working it out was the way to come to a deeper understanding.  A fool will not.  He will assume he will never understand it and pass by it.  The problem is, wisdom does not relax or the ignorant.  Ignoring what we should know simply because we think it is above our heads will only come back to bite us.

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