“But now thus saith the LORD that created thee, O
Jacob, and he that formed thee, O Israel, Fear not: for I have redeemed thee, I
have called thee by thy name; thou art
mine.” (Isa 43:1 AV)
Three little words that mean all the
world. Some might see the possessiveness
of these three little words as an offense.
They are not meant to be. They
are meant to convey value, commitment, and security. Some may see the relation between redemption
and possession and see the fact as being owned as devaluing the soul to an
impersonal possession. This is not the
case. These three little words might seem
demeaning. It is often preached the
right of redemption as the right of a property owner. Although we are the creation of God and He
has the right to do with us as He pleases, this passage is not meant to convey
this sovereign right. These three little
words are the most beautiful of all. To
the saint, these three little words are words that bring the ultimate in
contentment, joy, purpose, security, approval, and affirmation. These three little words sum up the total of
our relationship with the Savior who gave His life that we might live. These three little words should be held deep
within the heart. These three little
words should dispel and attack waged by the adversary. These are sound words. These are perfect words.
One can tell whether an individual is
ready for marriage. There are restrictions
to competing relationships that are natural and necessary. There are certain liberties lost when one
says ‘I do’. For instance, there was a
time I was courting a young lady prior to meeting my wife and this young lady had
a lot of guy friends. There was no romance
or flirting involved. Aside from the inappropriateness
of these relationships, I was disturbed that she would have so many male friends
while I courted her. She made it plainly
known these relationships would continue and I was to get over my jealousy. I didn’t own her. She felt she should have the liberty to
continue her life however it pleased her without any regard to how it affected
me. She clearly was nor ready to be
married and the courtship ended as quickly as it started. I have counseled couples who are considering
marriage and even some married couples who struggle with the concept. A fella doesn’t want to commit to the
restrictions a permanent relationship would require. A husband resents the lack of liberty a wife
and children bring. A bride to be
desires to continue pursuing life’s goals apart from what it would mean to her
husband. Or, she wants to place other
relationships as equal to, or greater, than the one she is thinking of
establishing with her groom. These
people are not ready to marry. These
three little words mean all the world and those who are happily married
treasure them.
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