“And because ye are sons, God hath sent forth the Spirit of his Son into your hearts, crying, Abba, Father.” (Ga 4:6 AV)
When reading this verse, we tend to focus on the
term Abba. That term is less of an official
title of God our Father and more of an endearing one. When we speak of God as Abba Father, we are
involving our child-like hearts and emotions and not restricting the title to
an authority figure or mentor. One
commentator equates the term to calling our heavenly Father, Daddy. It is a term of deep love and admiration
founded on appreciation and dependence.
We don’t use this term nearly enough.
In our own minds, we see it as less that an Almighty God would deserve. In doing so, we diminish the ministry of the
Holy Spirit in our hearts and spirits.
The underlined phrase is my focus this morning. The Spirit of His Son is indeed the Holy
Spirit. But the prepositional phrase following
the identification of the third person of the Trinity gives depth to the term Abba,
Father. As the Son relates to the
Father, the Spirit encourages us to do the same. The term, Abba, Father, is one of substance
and devotion. It is one of mutual
love. It is one that makes God less
austere and more familiar. It is one of
complete security, contentment, and affirmation. This title is one that makes approaching God
far easier. In essence, Abba, Father is
the result of the bridge between the saint and God that the ministry of the
Holy Spirit provides.
Rarely do we witness a relationship between father
and son or father and daughter where friendship, rather than mentorship becomes
the stronger foundation. When our children
are younger, they need an authority figure and mentor. However, as they age, they become more independent
and not in need of those things. That is
when a beautiful thing happens. There is
a transition from father to friend. You
are still their father. You still have
wisdom that you can share. But the relationship
changes. This is where I am with my
sons. Each is exceeding more than I ever
did. They are learning skills I never
had the privilege of learning. Now, I
can visit with them on the phone or go to their home and not feel as though
they need me or my wisdom. They ask
often enough. But they don’t need me in
that role nearly as much as they did. In
many ways, even though we are separated by distance and time, our relationships
are more intimate and less regimented.
We can share what the LORD is doing in each of our lives and ministries
knowing iron sharpens iron. We can reminisce
of some of the experiences we have had on the ballfield, the golf course, or
the woods and praise the LORD for all the wonderful times. Now, when my sons call me ‘Dad’ there is a
difference from thirty years ago. There
is something behind that name that wasn’t there when they were under my roof. It is more familiar. It is more intimate. It is absent of all the demands that this title
may impose. They do not call me ‘dad’
because they need something. They call
me this because they love me, appreciate me, and hold me in high regard.
The LORD will never cease to be our mentor. He will never cease to be God. He will never stop being our authority
figure. He will never cease to chasten
us when we go astray. These things will
not change. But that doesn’t mean we
cannot appreciate God and Abbe, Father. This
is the difference between our heavenly Father and the relationships we have
with our own dads or children. Human
relationships may transition. But our
relationship with our heavenly Father does not.
It does not transition. It
matures. As we learn to walk in
obedience and faith, the authoritarian nature of our relationship with God becomes
less a part of it and the affirming nature of our relationship becomes
stronger. The less we need God to
correct us, the more intimate we can become with Him. The less we need Him to guide us into all
righteousness because we are already living that way, the more we can relate to
God in the manner spoken above. This is
what we are missing. We are simply too
childish and walk after our own desires resulting in God as mentor and
corrector rather than the Father as Friend.
If we are to get to the point of relating to the Father as the Son does,
it starts there. More obedience. More faith.
Then we can cry onto the LORD as the Son did and call Him, Abba, Father.