“And Isaac gave up the ghost, and died, and was gathered unto his people, being old and full of days: and his sons Esau and Jacob buried him.” (Ge 35:29 AV)
What is true of Jacob and Esau can be true of
the saints. Given time and maturity,
there is no reason for unforgiveness and disunity. Life is too short to carry a grudge. Yet many people do. There have been many depictions of the strife
between the Hatfields and McCoys. It is
said the feud grew over an argument concerning a pig. Although embers from the civil war existed between
the two families, it wasn’t until both families found themselves in a court of
law of the ownership of a hog. The witness
which led to a decision in favor of the Hatfields was murdered by two McCoy
men. The death of one each of the two
families led to twenty-eight years of feuding resulting in dozens of deaths, two
state’s militias, and the federal government getting involved. What could have been solved by simple
humility and compensation turned into a battle that cost lives and homes. The funny thing is, today a tourist can go to
that area of the country and visit sites made famous by this feud. There is even a dinner theatre for those so
inclined. The healing was so thorough,
the two families appeared in a week-long competition of Family Feud. Time, blessing, and purpose all worked to heal
differences that, at one time, threatened their very existence.
The point is this. If there is an ongoing feud between two
people, two families, or two organizations, it is only ongoing because one or
both sides want it to. It does not need
to continue. What healed Jacob and Esau
was their ability to see God’s blessing and purpose in their individual
lives. They ceased to compete with one
another and were both comfortable in where God had them in life. Their differences were truly petty and
immature. Time has a way of growing
grace. Blessing has a way of maturing
humility and patience. Jacob and Esau
could come together because they could see God’s hand in it all and no matter
where they were in life, or how they got there, God was always in control and
always will be. Surrender to the plan of
God pours water on the fires of strife.
What a beautiful picture of forgiveness, faith, and charity we see in
these two brothers. Something we could
all learn.
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