“And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works:” (Heb 10:24 AV)
Sometimes, we as saints don’t have enough
faith that God can do miracles in another person’s life. In particular, the work of sanctification is
subject to doubt because we tend to see faults rather than successes. Growing up, I didn’t have a lot of encouragement. There was plenty of condemnation. There was much correction. However, when it came to someone believing in
me and what I could accomplish, there wasn’t a whole lot of that. Maybe it was our generation. I don’t know. What I do know is when the LORD blessed me
with three sons, I decided to raise them with the belief that if they surrendered
themselves to the ministry of the Holy Spirit, they could accomplish anything
the LORD would ask them to do. I spent
much time encouraging them to try again.
Rather than chasten them for their failures, I encouraged them to
overcome them by relying on the LORD. “By
God’s grace, you can do this!” was the
attitude of our hearts. Something my
father taught us was to place expectations higher than the norm and then treat your
child as if it was a foregone conclusion that he would meet them. This belief that what I was I was not
destined to be helped me avoid very hazardous decisions. Encouragement goes a long way in the success
of another. If he believes you believe,
then there is a chance it might happen.
When we hear of another’s failures,
how do we react? This reveals a lot of
our opinion of ourselves. If we are
quick to condemn others, generally speaking, we fail to see our own
faults. If, on the other hand, in the spirit
of meekness we determine to restore one from their faults, this shows the
proper attribute of humility. When we
see someone else fall, how do we react?
Do we show compassion? Do we
offer to pray with them? Do we make a
phone call or text every once in a while, to see how they are doing and if they
need help? Do we testify we also had the
same issue, but God is good to those who wish to overcome and will enable us to
do so as the Holy Spirit works in us? Do
we offer some bible verses as encouragement rather than verses that will
further condemn the saint who is doing a good job of condemning himself? One of the purposes of our assembly is to
provoke one another to love and good works. We assemble to motivate one another to live
for God. We assemble that we might share
our struggles with one another and seek support as we attempt to overcome that
which does not please God. I guess what
I am trying to say is there is a place for reproof and rebuke. But there is also a place for
exhortation. There needs to be a positive
balance to the negative of correction.
If someone already feels guilty for his faults, no need to further heap
on him more truth that will continue to condemn him. Provoke him to good works. Tell him you believe with all your heart that
he will succeed by the grace of God and the work of the Holy Spirit!
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