“Thou shalt not abhor an Edomite; for he [is] thy brother: thou shalt not abhor an Egyptian; because thou wast a stranger in his land.” (De 23:7 AV)
Given the history between Israel and these two nations, that had to be difficult. Edom is the descendant of Esau. They abused Israel as they traveled through the wilderness. They would not allow Israel to travel through their land while on the way to Canaan, nor would they sell water or pasture on a temporary basis. Edom would often work with the enemies of Israel and open opportunities for those enemies to attack Israel. Egypt, of course, enslaved Israel for 400 years. Their bondage was cruel. Egypt was a hard taskmaster who abused and even drove to untimely death those whom they enslaved. The command not to abhor those who had treated them so badly had to be a tough pill to swallow. I would certainly have a hard time with it. How we feel doesn’t matter. The LORD tells Israel not to detest those who have so badly abused them.
Who knew this biblical principle would appear thousands of years later? World War Two saw the United States fighting Italy, Germany, and Japan. When it came to cruelty, to the Americans, Japan was our worst tormentor. For Israel, Germany obviously wins that award. Following the great war Israel, and the United States, became allies to those nations that had tormented them so. The United States, Germany, and Italy are in NATO. Japan and Israel, both being western-style democracies, have an amiable relationship with the nations of NATO. Where did we learn that? Perhaps the example Israel set in their dealing with Edom and Egypt has something to do with it. Perhaps nations figured out it is in their best interests to forgive and forget. Those nations who cannot stop from hating others simply because they exist are forever embroiled in battles. Unrest around the world is largely caused by feuds that have been going on for thousands of years.
Forgiveness is important. Jesus tells us that if we do not forgive those who have mistreated us, then the Father is not inclined to forgive us. If we hold on to grudges, then the LORD is not apt to walk with us in perfect communion. The phrase ‘bury the hatchet’ comes from a custom of the Iroquois Nation of Native Americans. It was first witnessed by the English in 1644. When the warring factions of native Americans concluded a battle or war, having determined conditions for peace, each faction would offer a war hatchet and bury them together. It signified the war was over and terms of peace would rule. That is a good picture of the above command. Israel had to ‘bury the hatchet’ and live in peace with those who once abused them. It is not easy. But until the hatchet is buried, fighting will continue. Much loss with no gain is the result.