“And Abner and his men walked all that night through the plain, and passed over Jordan, and went through all Bithron, and they came to Mahanaim.” (2Sa 2:29 AV)
“And they took up Asahel, and buried him in the sepulchre of his father, which [was in] Bethlehem. And Joab and his men went all night, and they came to Hebron at break of day.” (2Sa 2:32 AV)
I find it interesting that the detail of walking the entire night is mentioned, but I don’t know why. Here are two foes who are going in opposite directions and doing so all night. Abner killed Joab’s brother in self-defense. Abner warned Asahel that to try killing him would only result in his own death. Asahel was an overly ambitious young man who did not have battlefield experience. Hebron was where David was. Joab was returning to serve his king. Mahanaim was in the territory of Gad on the east side of Jordon. It was a town mostly inhabited by Levites. Ironically, it is the same place David fled when Absalom stole his throne. Bothe Joab and Abner traveled all night as arrived in their place of service. Joab by the side of David, and Abner, who had plans to live out his life among the Levites. But what of the all-night travel? Why not wait until the break of day? Why not stick around and see if the other honored the agreement? One explanation was duty and fear. On Joab’s part, he had a duty to take his brother’s body to Benjamin and bury him. Abner had no reason to stick around. Perhaps he fled because he did not trust Joab. Whatever the case, God thought it important to let us know that these two men traveled all night to reach their desired locations.
I have taken a few of these trips. When we were younger parents and we wanted the kids to sleep all the way through, we would often leave after the sun went down and traveled all night. The driver was exhausted when we arrived, but our kids never fought or fussed the whole way. Traveling at night time was also less stressful. With the majority of traffic abated, the risk involved was fatigue. It wasn’t the stress of unpredictable traffic. Traveling at night was easier on the car, too. The heat of the day was not beating upon it. It was easier on the engine as it drove and cooled the car. There were risks. The clientele at truck stops is a bit sketchy at 3am. If there is a breakdown, you are on the side of the road for a while. But traveling at night is peaceful and has a way of leaving one to one’s thoughts. I remember one of the last trips my wife and I made that went well into the night. We were coming from the Gulf of America back up to Paducah, KY. I think it was a nine-hour drive. We had attended a Bible Conference, so we left after it was over. We started out in the middle of the afternoon. We arrived home around 2am. After about 9pm, my wife is fast asleep. So, I had five hours of reflection. It was a good thing to get into my head and work some things out.
I imagine at Joab and Abner laid aside their swords and walked all night, they too were left alone with their thoughts. Having left the emotion of the conflict behind them, they could process their state of mind and come to some reasonable conclusions. Later we find that Abner has resolved his. Joab did not. Walking all night is only profitable for a humble heart. Joab allowed the travel time to consume his vengeance toward Abner. Abner could find peace and actually worked for peace. Before his all-nighter, he was David’s enemy. By the time he arrived at Mahanaim, he found the love for his king that turned to cooperation and reconciliation. He had to kill Asahel. No hard feelings. But there was a job to do. How we use our all-night prayers, meditation, etc often determines the course of life we choose to take. It certainly did for these two men. One used his all-night stroll to plot revenge, while the other used it to plan reconciliation.