“And the firstborn said unto the younger, Our father [is] old, and [there is] not a man in the earth to come in unto us after the manner of all the earth: Come, let us make our father drink wine, and we will lie with him, that we may preserve seed of our father.” (Ge 19:31-32 AV)
The words above are from one of the two remaining daughters of Lot. They witnessed four of the five cities of the plain destroyed by the fire of God. They left Zoar to flee to the mountains. It is there the two daughters fear there will be no man left by whom they might bear children. Where did they get that idea? It occurred to me that Lot had two daughters and Abraham had two sons. The reason for their separation no longer existed. Lot abandoned shepherding for the city life. He no longer had herds or manservants. Why not return to Abraham? Or, at the very least, why not seek God’s permission to do so? Lot left the protection of God’s people. He went to the plain of Jordan and eventually became a dweller in Sodom. It was there that his family began to intermarry with the wicked people of Sodom and Gomorrah. Lot has so compromised himself that he was willing to offer his two daughters to the perverted desires of the homosexual citizenry. I thought, what a shame. One cannot know for sure, but it has to be asked, what would have happened if Lot returned to Abraham? Would repentance and reconciliation have halted the fearful act of incest? Would the enemies of Israel never been born? It is not a coincidence that Abraham had two sons and Lot had two daughters. Lot was so far removed from knowing right from wrong that he never saw it.
We have to be a bit careful here and not assert that God’s perfect will for Ishmael and Isaac were the two daughters of Lot. We simply do not know, nor may ever know. What we do want to consider is the possibility. There was no guarantee that Lot’s daughters would become daughters-in-law to Abraham. What we do know is that Abraham had two sons and a slew of servants. Provision for husbands and descendants was in the camp of Abraham. One also has to wonder if Lot knew about Abraham. Did Lot keep in contact with him? Was he aware that Ishmael was within just a few years of marrying and that God had promised another son? I guess what impressed me is that Lot never considered God’s provision. He never did his entire adult life. He went after what was best instead of what was best for him. He retired to wicked cities because it was more convenient. When the LORD told him to go to the mountains, he asked to go to Zoar instead. When fear gripped him, we went to the mountain as God first instructed. But it wasn’t a choice of obedience or conviction. It was a choice of fear and pragmatism.
We saw a bit earlier how Lot chose God’s best, but it wasn’t best for him. Now we see God sending Lot toward Abraham, and again, he fought it. Departing to the mountains was toward Abraham. The only mountains accessible to Lot were to the west. Back toward Abraham. In the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah, Lot was given a chance to turn around. Rather than trust the LORD and choose wisely, Lot missed God’s best for him again and, as a result, fathered two sons by his daughters while he lay drunk in his tent. I know. You might be thinking I am making too much out of a coincidence. Perhaps. But nothing is by chance. God directs it all. Lot had two daughters by His divine hand. Abraham had two sons by His divine hand. This is not a random event in history nor the simple result of a natural world. God told Lot to go in a specific direction. Out of fear, he rejected. Now, out of fear, his daughters never married. They had one son apiece by their father. They were doomed to live a life they feared the most. Why? Because they would not consider that God knows best and maybe, just maybe, there is provision for a need waiting in the wings.